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The real reason your next level still feels out of reach (what most high-achieving women miss!)

In this episode, I dive into what it really takes to evolve your identity as a leader — especially when your current level of success no longer feels aligned with who you’re becoming. I share the subtle signs that you’ve outgrown your current messaging, positioning, or even the way you show up online, and why trying to “optimize” from your old identity will only keep you stuck. If you’ve been feeling friction, plateaued growth, or like your voice doesn’t quite match the woman you are now, this conversation will hit home.

I also break down the practical shifts required to recalibrate — from refining your positioning and elevating your standards to making bold, strategic decisions that reflect your next level. This isn’t about doing more; it’s about becoming more precise, more honest, and more aligned. If you’re ready to stop performing and start leading from your highest identity, this episode will give you both the clarity and the courage to move.

 

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KEY POINTS: 

00:49 Renovation Update + Post-Retreat Come Down

02:13 What Unscripted Was Designed to Do 

04:03 Why It’d Been 2 Years Since Hosting a Retreat

08:11 The God Prompt That Birthed Unscripted

13:10 How This Retreat Was Different

16:12 Fellowship, Safety, and Embodied Transformation

21:13 Stop Holding Back From Proximity

26:16 The 3 Biggest Transformations

28:07 Final Reflections, Gratitude & What’s Next

 

QUOTABLES:

“  When your identity shifts. When you truly stop trying to lead and speak from where you were and you start leading and speaking from who you actually are and where you’re going, everything in your business and life reorganizes around that.” – Julie Solomon 

“ The lesson from maybe a bad experience or a bad investment isn’t, don’t ever do it again. It’s get better at choosing, get better at discernment. Take what that experience taught you about what you needed to know and use it to discern. And when you find the right person or the right experience, who is actually right for you? You go all in. You don’t punish the right room for what the wrong room did.”  – Julie Solomon

 

UNSCRIPTED: THE MASTERMIND

This 12-month, application-only mastermind is designed for high-caliber entrepreneurs ready to refine their positioning, amplify visibility, and scale strategically. If selected, you’ll receive 2 1:1 calls with me, monthly mastermind sessions, two retreats, and a guest feature on Woman of Influence.

Apply now and, if it’s aligned, we will personally reach out with next steps. 

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